Marc Aldrich Gopal. 22. Novena, Singapore. Filipino. Proctoid. Wanderlust-y. Leo. Atenean. O-C. Sleepyhead. Anti-mediocrity.
Potterite. Pet Fanatic. Acquired Taste. Lives life. Loves life.
You think you know but you have no idea.
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma- living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become.
Everything else is secondary.
Today, I probably had my the most expensive hair cut I'll ever have in my life. The folks at Toni and Guy offered everything from magazines, drinks and this kimono-ish robe on top of their professional hair cut, hair products and of course, advice. It was such a new experience, so deserving of the statement "so, this is what celebs experience." There wasn't much to do with my hair (aminado naman ako na may limit ang potential ng aking hair), but boy did they work to reach that limit. haha!
And I didn't have to pay a single cent. God, I love company perks. (even though this is a one time deal. haha!)
Aldrich the Model, the Hair Model Posted at 08:04 PM in Life as I Know It
Today is the fulfillment one thing that I've never dreamed of doing ever. Today, Aldrich was a model, a hair model. Oh yes you've read that right. It was for this event for the brand restage of Sebastian, a professional haircare brand under the Wella umbrella group of companies which is in turn, part of P&G. So, admittedly, it was all internal, and it was to a certain extent, chance that brought me there, but hey, hair model nonetheless. haha!
There was a room full of people from P&G, and I only knew a handful of them, and I was right in the middle of the room while the stylist from Toni & Guy did her thing. And they were all looking at me... well, they were looking at her per se, styling my hair. haha! it's a good thing models don't really say anything, because I honestly didn't know anything about professional hair care products, but heck, I got to take some home and I got a free haircut and syling from T&G, so consider me happy!
Honestly, I never thought this day would ever come. haha Me, a hair model? Heck, there's not much to be done to my hair, but the stylist showed how my hair has potential, changing from day to night styles etc. And in a way, I have more faith in my hair now more than ever. haha!
And kanina, yung isang stylist, sabi niya, mukha daw ako talagang model, with the build, the height and the looks. o di ba!? haha nambola ang lola mo! Feel ko she says that to all her clients, pero sa apat sa amin, sa akin lang niya sinabi. (at eto naman ako, nabola haha!)
Drag Me to Hell: Guilty Pleasure Posted at 09:15 PM in Life as I Know It
It was Wen's birthday yesterday, so we had to celebrate it by going all-out in this buffet in Shaw Ballestier. (this was a couple of steps back to fat-dom given that I went all baboy-mode in that P&G Pinoy Interdependence Party buffet the day before.. I am soo going to regret this tsk tsk.) Can't really remember the name, but its the one near the cinemas on the fourth floor. At $28 it's really value for money, and of course, when there's a selection of ice cream, i'm sold. haha! And with some "jelly-theft" thanks to Jho's bag, we bid goodbye to the resto and headed for Clark's place. Once there, Wen finally was able to blow the birthday candle on his birthday cupcake, and we shared the fruit flavoured jellies with Jules. Tapos, Jules was planning to watch "Drag Me To Hell" at 11:50 pm sa Shaw Ballestier din. We didn't really have plans, so all of us jumped into the bandwagon (pronounced as bandway-gon. haha!)
The film, all in all was (dare i say it), worth the $10 that I paid for it. Although it was a weird combination of shock and giggles for me. There were moments that I swear I would have literally jumped off my seat if only I wasn't holding on to it really tight. In fairness, may "gulat" factor! haha But there were moments that were without a doubt hilarious. Case in point was when the gypsy woman lost her false teeth, so she attacked the poor young girl with nothing but her gums. haha! Oh yes, it was the first time I ever encountered something that was scary and funny all in the same movie. Not really sure if I'll actually like other films like this, but honestly and in hindsight, I found it amusing - definitely worth staying up late for. haha!
And of course, there was the aftershock - oh yes that same feeling that I get after watching horror films. haha! Add to that the vibes Wen got in the movie house and in that street corner in between Clark's place and mine. Thank God we decided to sleep a little after 2 am, so a couple of minutes after my head touched the pillow, I was off to dreamyland.
And it's another Monday tomorrow. I feel neither good nor bad about it. Just stating a fact.
PS - I have a couple of new Wanderlust Chronicles Pending. What a shame that I dont have time to finish the entries. But I'm working on it. Hopefully, I'll have at least one of them up by this week.
Praises for Judy Anne's Ploning Posted at 08:45 PM in Life as I Know It
.I had the time to watch a DVD movie last night, so I chose to watch Ploning. Oh yes, the film starring Pantene's very own, Judy Anne Santos. It was the official entry of the Philippines for the Best Foreign Language Film of the 81st Academy Awards. It wasn't shortlisted, but I honestly think that it deserves glory well beyond what an Oscar can bring. I remember Judy Anne saying that this movie was a gift to her fans. And yes, it definitely is.
Judy Anne Santos was stellar - this was definitely a role that she was meant to play, she spoke Cuyonon like a native would. She was subtle and yet gleamed with grace. This film really brought out the main reason why she has her place as an actress in the world of Philippine cinema. The supporting cast was great as well - Gina Pareno is definitely becoming one of my favorite actresses - with her versatility and depth of character portrayal. I also loved Eugene Domingo in this role, more of like a comedic irony which I think she played really well. And I simply adored the role of "canned lychees" in the storyline, that's definitely one element that sort off tied it all together.
In hindsight, its definitely weird that the official entry of the Philippines to the Oscars was not even in Tagalog - but then again, that just shows the diversity of what the Philippines has to offer. More than that, it just goes to show that some emotions, human relationships and genuine human connections transcend the boundaries of language. Ang daming power lines, quotable quotes and "hagulgol" moments. This is definitely one film worthy of being called "Filipino."
Masakit, kasi nagmahal ka, At natapos ito nang hindi ka handa Sa bawat natatapos na pag-iibigan, May isa na mas nasasaktan. Hindi ba mas masarap isipin, na kaya ikaw ang mas nasasaktan, dahil ikaw ang mas nagmamahal.
It hurts, because you loved, and you weren't ready when it ended. Every time love ends, there is always someone who's hurt more. But doesn't it make you feel better thinking, that the reason why you were the who was hurt more, was because you were the one that loved more.
May rason para sa tanan. (There's a reason for everything.)
In the end, all I can say is - napakataray ng acting skills mo Juday! It's no wonder your star still shines brighter than it ever has before.
Wanderlust Chronicles 5: Siem Reap, Cambodia May 2009 Posted at 02:21 PM in Life as I Know It
Wanderlust Chronicles Five: Siem Reap, Cambodia May 2009
For those who studied high school in the Philippines, think back and remember your Sophomore Asian History Class - and you might remember a place called "Angkor Wat", yes, a remnant of the once grand Khmer empire in modern day Cambodia. Oh yes, this is another I’ve-always-wanted-to-go-to-this-place adventure ticked of my list of places to visit.
1. Amazing Race Moment - Faith slept over at my place because the flight to Siem Reap was at 6 am. And so we had to wake up extra early - like 4 am just to make sure that we had a time allowance to check in and go through immigration. But things don't always go like we plan them right? Net, we were already at the Budget Terminal by 5:25, which was already cutting it close. We tried looking for the Jetstar check in counter, but then realized that Jetstar flights depart from Terminal One. And after much cursing, finger pointing and eventually taking a cab, we arrived in Terminal 1 at 5:32 – hoping that they haven’t closed the check in counters yet. And by the grace of God, they haven’t done so yet. We quickly checked in and went through immigration. After that, I had some SGD exchanged to US Dollars, specifically looking for loose change (singles and fives) as advised by those who’ve been there before. After that, we boarded the plane. It was a two hour plane ride, but I honestly can’t remember it because we headed off to sleepy land after sitting down. zzzZzZZZzzz J
2. Welcome to Cambodia! – After a couple of hours of sleep, we finally landed in SiemReapInternationalAirport! And by God, it’s one of the most relaxing airports ever! Honestly, it was like a friggin’ SPA! Quite simple, with just two boarding gates, but the design was really reminiscent of the spas that I’ve seen in Thailand. And then I realized how many Pinoys were actually in the plane – we all came from Singapore but I had a feeling that most of them departed from SG because there are no budget flights directly to Cambodia. Anyway, we had someone pick us up from the airport – but if you ask me, it’s still surreal to actually see someone waiting in the airport with a “Mr. Gopal” placard. After that, it was off to the hotel – but the depressing part was that barely 50 meters away from the airport, the surroundings changed to that of a poor, poverty-stricken third world nation. There was only one major highway, and the other roads were dirt roads. It was just so weird because the change was so apparent, so obvious.
3. The US Dollar experience – When I travelled to Thailand and Vietnam, there was a rush when I exchanged by SGDs for their respective currencies. After all, those are just a few benefits of coming from Singapore. But coming to Cambodia was a helluva different experience simply because most of the transactions are in US Dollar (which is why it’s advisable to have USDs in 1s and 5s). It’s not even necessary to exchange your money to Cambodia’s local currency, the Riel, because the USD is accepted everywhere! But the convenient partis the exchange rate that they have, so 1 USD is roughly 4000 riel. And so 1000 Riel is a quarter USD. Nice di ba? So for example, you buy something worth $1.5, and you hand over $5, you’ll get back $3 and 2000 Riels (roughly $0.5)! Anyway, it actually hurt shopping in USD, paying for tours in USD, paying for food with USD, you get the idea. And it would have been worse if I went there with Philippine pesos. To be honest, it wasn’t really as cheap as I expected it to be, primarily because the life blood of Siem Reap comes from US Dollars brought in by tourists so everything is probably inflated vs. other parts of Cambodia.
4. Gong and the Tuktuk Tour – We ended up hiring a tuktuk for each day that we were there. Cost was roughly $12-15 per day going around the different temples. This was a good deal instead of that rental car scam that was offered to us for $25-40 USD/day (depending on the distance) by the hotel. Did they think we were born yesterday? Haha Anyway, we thought it was better to just get to know our driver, named Gong and just hire him for three days to tour us around. He was actually quite efficient and took the initiative to actually make additions to the itinerary that we had planned. Amazing because on top of the places we wanted to see (which all came from the Lonely Planet guide book that I have), he’d make other stops on some other places not even mentioned in the guide book. And it was part of the whole package that we paid for – so no incremental charges! J
5. Cambodian Countryside – The temples were near Siem Reap, but they were not walking-distance. Heck, they weren’t even short-tuktuk-drive near. In fact, most of the places had a 1 to 1.5 hour tuktuk drive prerequisite before we even got to see shadows of the temples. And so we’d spend the 1 hour drive sitting on Faith’s famed “kalesa.” Haha, it felt so bourgeois, so old world to actually travel with your very own tuktuk in the countryside. Actually, it was quite reminiscent of the Ilo-Ilo countryside of my childhood, where relatives would live near each other, cows would freely graze the fields and children would play under the sun. Then, I realized that most south East Asian countries looked quite similar. Yes, they are at different levels of development, but at the end of the day, the land and the people are undeniably similar, sharing the same fundamentals. And the way we all live may differ depending on foreign influences, but there are definitely some factors that links us all and ties us all together as South East Asians.
6. The Wonders of Angkor Wat –It’s a temple built in the 12th century, a religious center and the epitome of the grandeur that is Khmer Architecture. Even back then, I told myself that if ever I had enough money when I grew up, I’d visit it and see the splendor for myself. It took almost 7 years, but there I was, at the very gates of the ruins that until then. I’ve only read about in books. And boy, it was more than I ever expected it could be. I’m not sure if Faith even noticed, but I took a couple of minutes of silence for myself, just to take in all of what was happening. It was that amazing – that I felt humbled and proud at the same time. It felt good being human, knowing that humans, centuries ago, were able to build such an amazing structure without the technologies that we take for granted today. The level of detail was astonishing, the size and scale was breathtaking and the fact that I was there – definitely unbelievable.J
7. The Majesty of Angkor Thom – As mentioned, Angkor Wat is a temple, Angkor Thom was the capital. To put things in perspective, Angkor Thom was a capital of over a million people when London was just a town of 50,000 people. That is how old this capital is. And if Angkor Wat was the gemstone of the empire, this was the whole friggin’ crown! We spent the whole day touring around Angkor Thom – exploring the halls, the wall carvings – absorbing as much of the place as we could. We even took pictures of the places that looked familiar as it was featured in Angelina Jolie’s Lara Croft: Tomb raider. I can’t put into words as to how much beauty and awe this place has to offer. There’s a reason why they feature this place in their National Flag – and honestly, grab the first chance that you get to go visit this place, you owe it to yourself to see it.
8. Tonle SapLake and the FloatingVillage – What’s amazing about Tonle Sap is that its both a river and a lake. On top of that, it’s the biggest freshwater lake in South East Asia. Yes, that’s how big the lake is. How big you may ask? It’s big enough to actually have a friggin’ floating village. Nope, its not a touristy excuse of a floating village, it’s an actual floating village, where you can see for yourself how humans can actually live floating in a big-ass puddle. There were floating houses, floating schools, floating shops, there was even a floating basketball court! It was amazing to see how people can actually live in an actual lake. And the amazing part was that there were even floating “yards” filled with plants. So, each big house would have this floating boat with soil, and herbs and stuff growing on it. Amazing talaga! There was even a couple of children (barely 4 or 5) who were riding a boat, and screaming “one dollar” at us. Yes, they spoke no other English, just those two words. It was sad, so we gave them one dollar each, and it was amazing to see how their faces lighted up with joy. For some people, $1 is all they need and all their problems go away. If only things were that simple for me. haha
9. Khmer Cuisine and the famed Happy Pizza Experience – For the most part, Khmer food was very South East Asia – filled with tomatoes, ginger and garlic. To be honest, I found it interesting to actually taste the similarities in South East Asian cuisines. But what was unique about this was that we tried Khmer Barbecue which was a mixture of a steamboat and a barbecue at the same time. There was this pork fat that served as the “oil”, but the unique thing about it was the meats for the barbecue. We had the usual beef, chicken and pork, but on top of that, we had SNAKE and CROCODILE. Amazing right!? The snake tasted like fish, and the crocodile tasted like a mixture of beef and fish. On top of that, we also tried water Crickets – as seen in the Amazing Race! I took off the legs and the head, and downed it with lots of water, but yes, I can say that I’ve tried it. I didn’t like it (see picture of Faith and me below), but heck, it was well worth the first bite. Haha! J But the best part of this food trip was the Happy Pizza Experience – oh yes, the happy happy happy pizza experience. One experience that I’ll never ever forget. Ever. And now, I stop and move on.
10. Shopping in Old Market & the Pantene Trade Visit – Shopping in the Old Market was surreal. Markets in South East Asia look very similar. Except for the fact that there were dried snakes and weird looking sausages hung from the ceiling. I had this friend who went to Cambodia before (Hi Katy!), and she brought back this really nice fan from Cambodia. And there I saw them, lots and lots of them in old Market, and they came in different colors! J And so I went on a fan shopping spree for friends in the Philippines. J And then of course, I couldn’t help but do a trade visit – to see how well Pantene is being sold. You see, there are no big supermarkets in Cambodia. I think the biggest one that I saw were the shops in the gasoline stations. That was it. So most of the stores there were Cambodian equivalents of sari-sari stores. And what hung there in the shampoo Aisle were Pantene sachets – from the Philippines! J I bought a couple as souvenirs.
And thus ended our trip to Cambodia. We had to take a one day leave, but it was definitely worth it. Grab the first chance you get to go to Angkor and see for yourself the wonders that Man can achieve even with primitive tools.
Hearing: Celine Dion - A New Day Has Come Feelin' humbled.
Aldrich gone wild in PC Show! Posted at 09:12 PM in Life as I Know It
Yesterday, I kind of let myself go. Oh yes, I definitely let go of all of my financial inhibitions.
Where you may ask? The Singapore PC Show of course! It's this quarterly IT show in Suntec City. There were so many bargains, so many freebies and they were slashing $100 off left and right. How bad was it? Dumating sa level na tumawag ang citibank sa mobile ko to check kung ako ba yung gumagamit ng card or nanakawan ba ako ng credit card because of "recent activity." haha!
And I left the PC show with bags in tow (not to mention that friggin stroller that came with the free printer), oh yes, the first time I've ever felt the rush of shopping. And though I left with pockets that were lighter than when I came in (figuratively lang naman kasi I used plastic for all of my transactions), at that moment, I felt happy, and proud. Oh yes, there will be financial repercussions because of all of this - but it feels good that I know I can afford all of these. At least theoretically. haha
And they say money can't buy you happiness. I say, buy things that would make you happy! And now, I shall go back to scrimping on daily expenses to make sure I don't go bankrupt in the out months. haha =)
'Til the nex loop!
Hearing: Janet Jackson - Someone to Call My Lover Feelin' crazy!
I bought this Lonely Planet guide a few months back - something that I thought would really be useful as I was then planning to start my tour around South East Asia - one weekend at a time.
And last night, I was browsing through its pages and I read the profiles of the contributors. One profile really struck me the most. His name was Josh, and this was his profile:
Josh has backpacked around Thailand, Vietnam and Egypt; spent a month on a sailing boat in the Caribbean; lived in a kibbutz in the northh of Israel;l and worked as a cook at a hostel in Jerusalem. He's also lived and worked in Paris and Kyoto. He loves to swap crazy stories, eat good food, drink pastis, bask in warm weather and scuba dive - Vietnam quits him just fine.
Honestly, I feel that a life well travelled is a life well lived. Our world is just so amazing, and there's so much to see! And this guy, though undoubtedly he probably still has that yearning to travel, has definitely begun to live, and has seen more of the world than most people.
Here's to making sure that in a year or two, I myself can write a profile similar to Josh's. Here's to a life well lived!
Tonight, I was someone's dirty little secret. It feels weird and exciting all at the same time and its all so new to me... In all honesty, nakakakilig! haha! Too bad this wasn't meant to last. Oh well. haha!
Hearing: Desperate Housewives Season 5 Episode 19 Watching: Desperate Housewives Season 5 Episode 19 Feelin' bouncy
Wednesday was work as usual. Meetings and all that. But towards the end of the day, I was grabbing a Subway Meal for dinner and then I suddenly realized that there was this sharp pain in the left side of my mouth - quite like the same way you'd feel when your wisdom teeth started to appear. I guess it came from this wider-than-normal yawn that I had before going for dinner. But then, I just brushed it aside. And then, the pain progressed, and in just a matter of minutes, I couldn't chew anymore! It was painful as hell, but I told myseld that it would probably subside after I take painkillers. After all, Ibuprofen Paracetamol has never failed me before.
I walked back to the office, and then my jaw suddenly "popped." I thanked God for what I thought was the end of the problem. But, boy was I wrong. It was only the start. It just kept on painfully popping the whole night - all the way until the morning. I searched the internet and the first search result for "lock-jaw" was tetanus. But then the article said that if it was indeed tetanus, then I would be in so much pain that I wouldn't be able to read that article anyway. So the next best thing was that it was TMJ (temporo-madibular joint) problems - which they advised for me to put a hot compress on it for the inflammation to subside.
The next day, I took the morning off to go see the doctor - and she said that my jaws were inflammed. Supposedly, this was common and that it would take a couple of the days for the inflammation to subside. And until then, I should stick to a liquid diet - soups, fruit juices and soft bread at the most. My initial reaction was - "are you kidding me!?" But then the pain was so unbearable. haha And this would do wonders for my plans for weight loss anyway. And so, I had Cedele soup for lunch and distracted myself from the pain by focusing on the work that I had to do.
Anyway, I told Oana about this through messenger - since she was working from home that day. And we had tennis plans that night - but in now way am I letting that go - the pain was just in my mouth, not the whole body so I could still play. Anyway, I walked over to her Condo right after work. And She cooked Romanian chicken soup for me. It tasted really yummy - sour quite like our own sinigang, but definitely something i've never tried before. She also gave me some homemade alcohol she brought back from her recent trip to Romania - which was really strong, and she claimed that it would really help. It was like 60-70% alcohol, definitely strong, parang paint thinner. haha! Anyway, I felt really nice after the mea. God, I'm really thankful for friends like Oana. It's just that without my actual family here, it seems that great friends really are excellent surrogates.
Anyway, I'm feeling loads better today. It still pops once in a while - but the bulk of the inflammation has subsided now. *sigh* Thank god for modern medicine and the comfort that great friends give us while the medicine is doing its magic.
Hearing: Taylor Swift - Love Story Feelin' weak, but getting stronger.
I just booked another flight five minutes ago. And, guess what, its for February! That's more than six months away. I'm starting to feel that this is suddenly turning into an addiction - looking for good places to visit, finding the cheapest possible flights and minimizing the number of leaves as much as possible.
And in all honesty, I'm getting better at it. (Practice makes perfect!) I've found trips to places a couple of time zones away for under 60 SGD. That's two time zones away for just ~1800 pesos! Round trip, all in. Can you believe it? It's even cheaper than a regular flight to Manila, or even to KL!
There's just so much of my time spent looking at budget airline websites, waiting for unbelievable offers and figuring out if there are folks interested in joining the trip. Oh well, Travelling sooo gives me the high! Can you believe that i've been to five new countries in the past three months!? And I only had to take one day of leave for all of these trips! It takes talent and skilled coordination to make things like that happen. And of course, kailangan din ng funds, pero oh well, work hard, travel harder!! And my travelling schedule is finally nailed down for the next six months (a few weeks back, I was so frustrated because my calendar was sooo wide open) -but now, I've been able to arrange everything and I'm finally expanding my trips to Greater China! Oh yes, manginig na ang mga Intsik for my visits! haha
And oh, I'm working on the latest Wanderlust entry. I know, its almost a month late now, but anyway, i'm targetting mid this week. haha Patience is a virtue!
Hearing: Destiny's Child - Say My Name Feelin' on a high!